
Time for an online dating update even though my creativity has been stifled. Many topics are were off-limits.
“Horsegirl” is not a good screen name.
Let me see if I can recreate what was there.
They removed my/this website.
EDIT: The above is a bit dated and from free sites (POF, OKC). It is probably also off-base. I am not a prude!
EDIT #2: I don’t think I am going to be here long. Trial period. Profile keeps getting excised. Serious women with meticulous profiles and oodles of pictures. Real, recent experience: Do you really think men or women care if you climbed the Materhorn? All your profile says is Yale University. You lived in Paris, Frankfurt, and Rome? I’m a writer but I don’t want to be in the profile-writing or (self) picture-taking business. I think it is too much for me.
I did live in Frankfurt. And… FBIHQ, great schools (some with good football teams) Oh yes, I’ve had some great careers and look forward to about five more. And I am sooooo happy to share if you ask.
Something like that. I probably would have edited most of it out anyway, once my mood changed. But it is unacceptable to have it removed.
“Smart, funny, confident, very innocent, sexy as hell, and with an incontrovertible spirit. You know it when you see it.” I know that was there.
There is rebirth. There has to be a “Moving on, part 2,” and parts beyond that too. How did she do it?
Match.com? I think it is a fools’ game. The women may be fabulous but the process is not becoming. It is a shame to pay for that extra security, if that is what they call it. Just stop trying to hide. I think they are taking women, in particular, for a ride.
The views, likes, interests, winks, and emails are astounding in just one day. What is the difference between a “Like” and an “Interest?” Much of it is spam. I feel badly for the people there. My God, WarriorPrincess? Hrtful@talkmatch.com? It is beyond stunning how seriously people take it. And here I thought pet products was an emotionally-driven product category. Wow.
The more you pay the more important it is. Everything is tracked and they know exactly; brand loyalty–for women–in online dating. The problem is Match.com has no particular advantage, except size, kind of like Amazon. They’re Amamatch.com.
Maybe I’ll go back to NAME and OKCupid. How did she do it? Personality–and what’s behind it–and the goddamn ability to put it into words. (EDIT: To write it (? in person); in person too, just very different.) Add in a lot of targeted marketing. And persistence. Great Travel Plans (!) don’t hurt.
That plays a big part. It is a written medium.
‘You are exactly like me,’ I never actually said, ‘if I hadn’t lived my life at all. If I had no self-awareness whatsoever.’ And some animals (e.g., zebras) cannot be tamed.
Speed dating!! I think that is the future of gender relations. Maybe Tinder; wait a minute, you saw my picture… It is a picture of a car!
P.S. Possible thought for the future. I’m through with calling cell phones. If you can’t talk, don’t answer the phone. And I need to make sure my phones have personable greetings.
P.P.S. I remember taking the FBI excising test. My scores for a lot of things were good, but that one dragged me down. Probably it wasn’t explained well to me–I mean, I think I could do it. I just didn’t get it.
Incontrovertible or indefatigable, I get confused.
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